I don't mind admitting that I have used prostitutes all my adult life.
One simple reason for this is that
WOMEN HAVE REJECTED ME ALL MY LIFE
and I have never been married.
Maybe the women concerned were right to reject me at the time and they certainly had the right to reject me; but before people condemn me for using prostitutes, I would like them to bear this reality in mind.
If I had not been constantly rejected, I would not have used prostitutes.
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Neither should the fact that I have used prostitutes all my adult life imply that men do not need and desire LOVING RELATIONSHIPS WITH WOMEN.
On the contrary, this is a basic need and a desire in me that has never been met, and this has caused me considerable pain.
So women - or other men for that matter - would be DOUBLY WRONG if they ASSUME from cases like mine that men, i), just want sex and, ii), don't want to give and receive love and affection in a relationship nor that iii) men don't love women or need love from women.
I wouldn't want people to draw from my life the wrong lessons.
Things go wrong in life. We can try and prevent them from going wrong. But they do go wrong.
But we must draw the right lessons.
In fact I needed and need a WIFE. I was never encouraged to believe that this was the right approach to my love life - whereas it was.
I never got a wife and maybe never will.
It is ultimately my own fault that things worked out like this, but that doesn't change the basic point I am making.
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I observe that nowadays women - mainly thanks to feminism - don't always see being a loving wife as a part of what a woman should be any more.
Also. men can be encouraged by our sexist society to believe that their nature is not loving. Of course their nature is LOVING.
You could say I wasted my life - but I in no way intended to do so.
It was utter stupidity and carelessness that led to me "wasting my life" in some respects.
No life is wasted anyway.
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My belief is that prostitution should be allowed for on LIBERTARIAN grounds.
If I personally could go back in time to the age of 19 I would simply have got married as people did for many generations before me. In which case I would never have visited prostitutes, nor wanted to.
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To clear up an apparent contradiction - women rejected me but it was my fault because I foolishly caused them to do so.
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One simple reason for this is that
WOMEN HAVE REJECTED ME ALL MY LIFE
and I have never been married.
Maybe the women concerned were right to reject me at the time and they certainly had the right to reject me; but before people condemn me for using prostitutes, I would like them to bear this reality in mind.
If I had not been constantly rejected, I would not have used prostitutes.
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Neither should the fact that I have used prostitutes all my adult life imply that men do not need and desire LOVING RELATIONSHIPS WITH WOMEN.
On the contrary, this is a basic need and a desire in me that has never been met, and this has caused me considerable pain.
So women - or other men for that matter - would be DOUBLY WRONG if they ASSUME from cases like mine that men, i), just want sex and, ii), don't want to give and receive love and affection in a relationship nor that iii) men don't love women or need love from women.
I wouldn't want people to draw from my life the wrong lessons.
Things go wrong in life. We can try and prevent them from going wrong. But they do go wrong.
But we must draw the right lessons.
In fact I needed and need a WIFE. I was never encouraged to believe that this was the right approach to my love life - whereas it was.
I never got a wife and maybe never will.
It is ultimately my own fault that things worked out like this, but that doesn't change the basic point I am making.
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I observe that nowadays women - mainly thanks to feminism - don't always see being a loving wife as a part of what a woman should be any more.
Also. men can be encouraged by our sexist society to believe that their nature is not loving. Of course their nature is LOVING.
You could say I wasted my life - but I in no way intended to do so.
It was utter stupidity and carelessness that led to me "wasting my life" in some respects.
No life is wasted anyway.
-------
My belief is that prostitution should be allowed for on LIBERTARIAN grounds.
If I personally could go back in time to the age of 19 I would simply have got married as people did for many generations before me. In which case I would never have visited prostitutes, nor wanted to.
......
To clear up an apparent contradiction - women rejected me but it was my fault because I foolishly caused them to do so.
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